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Honor thy father and mother kjv1/18/2024 ![]() A family is not a group of like-minded friends but a hierarchy, with parents, like the abbot or abbess in a monastery among vowed celibates. That is a natural human longing, and God knows we all need a family to live with in that home. No longer slaves or nomads on the road in tents, they were going to a place to call home where they were going to build houses and plant trees. The first church, or temple, is indeed the home.Īnd what of the land? The commandments were first given so the Israelites could know how to live in the new land they were about to enter. But of central importance as a child grows to adulthood is learning to honor God as our parents teach us by precept and example. We all want to grow up, and so listening to our mother or father say “don’t eat that poisonous thing,” “get away from that cliff,” “don’t hit your sister, “watch out for snakes,” and so on, is the first and best way to literally survive childhood. The promise is long life in the land - life and land are both gifts from God to his people. This is the first commandment with a promise, as St Paul reminds the Christians at Ephesus. Whether or not a given person can love her parents, she or he can still honor them for cooperating with God in bringing her or him into this world. The philosopher Hobbes wrote that children love their parents primarily because they did not kill them when they were weak and helpless! That is what we might expect of one who wrote that life in the state of nature is “nasty, brutish, and short.” But having these commandments from God reforms the state of nature under the commandments our life in nature is directed by God for good. Parents who are determined to be primarily their children’s friends and refuse to discipline and teach them are neglecting their duty out of sentimentality.Īnd although a son or daughter perhaps cannot “love” abusive or neglectful parents, they can still honor them for bringing them into the world. “Honor” translates the Hebrew word kabod which is the same root as the word for “heavy.” Interestingly, the word is not “love.” Why not, we might ask, since most children do love their parents and most parents love their children? Perhaps because “love” as commonly understood is an emotion and an attitude, and thus not enough for a stable home - parents must demand honor and respect and children must give it to them or the home will be in chaos much of the time. “Thou shalt not commit adultery” commands us to take the honor we owe our parents and give it to our spouse when we leave our father and mother and cleave to our husband or wife to establish a new family. The children born of their fruitfulness have this commandment to honor them both equally.įurthermore, it is significant that there are two commandments out of ten that have to do with family life. Together they are to be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, which is the very first commandment in all Holy Scripture. Far from the Roman idea of the pater familias who had complete authority over his wife and children, the Hebrew teaching is that male and female are equally created in the image of God, and thus equally reflect that image in creation. Whatever patriarchy can be seen in the Old Testament stories and laws, God considers the mother of equal standing with the father in the family. This commandment establishes a centrality to the family, within which honor is to be given to one’s father and mother equally. There are three major points emphasized in this commandment, and a conclusion for Christians regarding its implications. Our duty to God and to our neighbor is first of all personal, not corporate. The directions in all the commandments are given in the second person singular - the thou, thy, and thee pronouns that we rarely use in modern English but which are the standard informal and singular usages in many modern languages such as Spanish, French, and German. It is significant that this first duty is to our parents each of us must honor them both. Deuteronomy 5:16.Īfter the first four commandments, which teach us how to worship the one God, the Lord who brought the Children of Israel out of Egypt and is leading them to the Promised Land, this is the first of the six commandments addressing how we human beings are supposed to treat one another. ![]() Honor thy father and thy mother, as the Lord thy God hath commanded thee that thy days may be prolonged, and that it may go well with thee, in the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee. Part of a series on the Ten Commandments.
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